Longing, Readiness, and Anchoring Hope

hope anchor

Frustrated. That's how I felt. I wrote this article for the first time earlier today. And it took me nearly two hours. And then my computer froze and the dreaded-dread-thing happened. I had to restart the computer and when I returned to the article everything was blank. Gone. I called in my better-than-I-am-at-computers-son who was home from school with a fever and asked for his help, but no matter what we did, the words were irretrievable. I know... I Continue Reading

Doing Nothing is Still Something

Doing Nothing

When I do nothing– Something still happens. And it’s usually not good. When I don’t exercise– I grow weak and flabby and… When I don’t spend time in the garden– It fills with weeds and pests and… When I don’t invest in my marriage– We grow distant and grouchy and… When I stop consistent parenting– There is arguing and selfishness and… When I don’t spend time with Him. I’m quick to fall, easy to corrupt and… There is no standing still. There Continue Reading

Lest We Forget… (Planning to Remember on Memorial Day)

Lest We Forget

For five years now, we have gone to Willamette National Cemetery on Memorial Day. Neither my husband or I grew up doing this and to be honest with you, the first year he suggested it... I wasn't all that willing. But-- after that first year when we found the grave sites of Medal of Honor winners and read their stories, I never want to miss the opportunity to remember. Because it's so easy to forget about men like-- Larry Dahl's whose official Medal of Honor Continue Reading

Intentional Summer Planning Questions

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I went walking with a friend this afternoon and we were talking about summer plans and also just about planning in general.  There have been seasons of life when I've felt focused and organized and planning for the future felt really fun. This current season is not one of those seasons. For the past couple of weeks, I've just been thankful to close out each day with each child making it to each class-activity-responsibility with their water bottle or homework Continue Reading

Camping Fun (with printable camping list)

camping list

By request... I'm migrating this article over from my previous site... Every summer we try enjoy at least one or two camping trips with a group of our friends... (a few photos from camping in years past with a printable camping list at the end) Water fun... And don't forget your pink-camping-tutu... Let the bug hunting begin... Finding newts is always a highlight... And crawdads... Lydia Continue Reading

Tuesday Writing in Faith and Culture

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Last night we watched the Count of Monte Cristo. My friend Anne-Marie just finished the book and throughout she noted all the ways the movie does not match, which were vaguely familiar from the last-long-time-ago that I read it. And she said all the names with perfect French pronunciation which made her version sound way more beautiful. But I was tired. And kind of enjoyed that Mondego is clearly the bad guy. No redeeming qualities there. And Dantes gets to Continue Reading

Faith That Walks

faith that walks

When our Lydia was very little, her daily bedtime routine included: -Reading with the big kids and dad. -Two songs and a prayer with mom. -And then our bedtime chant of "Goodnight. Sleep tight. Wake up bright, in the morning light, To do what’s right,with all your might!” Then one night, she added her own theologically-sound-volume-enhanced-concluding-plea: “Oh God, will ya’ please help us?" Isn’t that the way it truly is? “If you love me, you Continue Reading

Encouraging Titus 2 Relationships (Don’t Outgrow the Nursery)


      This Sunday we will have to decide whether or not we should hand out saltine crackers. And we'll be busy matching diaper bags with nametags and who is supposed to take a nap and whose hairclip got pulled out and which baby is the odor culprit and what toys were slobbered and need to be washed. And there's potential in there for us to be outnumbered. And out maneuvered. And there have definitely been Sundays when all I've Continue Reading

Interview with an American Idol Mom (What She Prays for Her Son)

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  The last few months have been a little crazy for the Seavey family. Keri and Jeff never imagined that they would watch their son Daniel Seavey make it into the Top 24, let alone Top 11, on the popular American singing competition series known as American Idol. I know Keri as-- wife to Jeff, a senior pastor and church planter, mom to four children (Tyler, Christian, Daniel and Anna), women's ministry leader, biblical counselor, speaker, and writer who Continue Reading

Making Time for Your Marriage When You Have Little Ones


This morning I'm over sharing at my friend Sandra's... We met last October in Montana when a group of us who write for The Better Mom website gathered to reconnect. There was just this bittersweet connection we immediately had as she shared about the tragic loss of her daughter Tiffany, their only child. And I shared about Selah. And we became friends. Sandra heart's passion is "to encourage, train and inspire women to use their homes as places of
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